In theory, if you can get through the stress of planning a wedding together, you should be able to get through anything, right?  Well, here is some time-tested wisdom to help couples get through the rough patches:

Try not to be angry at the same time;

Never go to bed angry or without having settled an argument;

Remember to treat each other with respect – too often we treat total strangers better than we treat our loved ones so try not to take each other for granted;

If you do have to say something critical, try to do it in a gentle manner – point out a positive before you point out the negative;

Let the past go – once you have forgiven past mistakes you must mean it!  (And admit when you do something wrong)

Choose your battles – sometimes you come out ahead by letting your spouse win an argument (remember it takes two to make an argument – sometimes it’s better if you just back out);

Try to say something nice to each other every day;

Sometimes you have to put the whole world on hold and remember to spend time together – staying connected is so important and so easily lost in the chaos of everyday life!

About Vanity Fare Caterers

Vanity Fare Caterers is one of the best wedding venues in New Jersey.  See how our years of expertise can take the stress out of many of your decisions and make your wedding the "one of a kind" day you have dreamed about! As well as dream weddings, Vanity Fare Caterers is also your source for other special occasions including baby showers, bridal showers, birthday parties, communions, christenings, corporate holiday parties or retirement parties, Sweet 15 or Sweet 16 as well as Bar and Bat Mitzvahs. Just call us to schedule an appointment to come in and view our facilities. We're looking forward to hearing from you.

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Vanity Fare Caterers
1600 Route 70 East
Lakewood, NJ 08701
Phone 732-364-6400
website http://www.vanityfarenj.com
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